Lingam is a term from Sanskrit and includes symbolically in western Neotantra the man's entire erogenous zone. The different areas of the lingam are the focal point, and these are included alternately in the massage. The man's own desire and spirituality can be experienced without any pressure to perform. The experienced masseuse directs and controls the dynamics of desire like the composition of a symphony throughout the massage period.
The intensity of the arousal is controlled by the building up, the decreasing and the building up again of the sexual energy, and slowly leads to the longed-for release. The Lingam-Massage, the fine art of sensual massage, is both a duty and a choice for a young, aspiring masseuse. It combines technical know-how with human expertise and the sensual art of touch.